How to Give Thanks Without Giving Thanks
Sermon Series
Sermon Study Guide
Scripture
Philippians 4:10-20
Speaker
Pastor Joey
Sermon Study Guide
Q1: Icebreaker: How do you say “thank you” in your language and culture? Where did these words come from?
Q2: What is some of the language, words, or ideas that that Paul seems to be avoiding in his thank-you letter? The world’s usage of thankfulness can sometimes mean indebtedness, obligation, and is the langue of transaction and reciprocity. What has been your experience with this in life?
Q3: Studies are showing now that gratitude can lead to great happiness. Many TED talks are available on this idea. Paul experiences great joy, “mega joy,” when he realizes that the Philippians show deep care and concern for Paul in prison. He is moved not merely by the gifts, but by their friendship and support throughout the years. They are partners in the Gospel. In what ways do you experience this joy? Is it a fleeting happiness, an emotion that goes up or down based on external circumstances? Or is it a joy in your connection to the gift-giver, not just in the gift?
Q4: Paul says he has learned to be content. This contentment is not in earthly things, nor is it in a detachment to earthly things. His contentment is in attachment to Jesus Christ. In what way would this break the cycle of transacational, obligatory, gift-giving in the world today?
Q5: Paul didn’t seek more gifts from the Philippians, he says he sees their fruit. In what ways do you use “the fruit of the gift” to show your appreciation for a gift?
Q6: Paul ends the thank-you letter with words of praise to God and blessings for his dear brothers and sisters in the church in Philippi. This is a unique way for Christians to give thanks and show appreciation, is through praise to God and prayer for others. In what ways do you exercise this type of expression of appreciation?
Q7: Which part of this message on giving thanks without giving thanks resonated with you the most? Which part surprised you the most?
